new lives to live

My cousin just had a baby, the story continues, im at a loss as to what to do to help, i want to help her out any way i can but i have very little to give at this point. She gave her mom's name as a middle name which is nice, i had wanted to do the same thing as a memoriam but it seems a little redundant now. I'm always a little uncomfortable with this stuff anyway, i've never really been on a level playing field with my family as they are all a bit different than me and so we dont always want the same things at the same time and are often left with little to agree about. Still I care for them, and find points in each that i can relate to..